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Advice and Articles
Submitted by Our Members
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Singles in Your Area
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Looking for the perfect woman....or a conveyer
belt female
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Speaking with
several ladies on various dating sites, I have
come to the conclusion they feel some of the men are
simply dreaming, wishing, and hoping for total
perfection.
They seek a no baggage woman, to be totally fit, and
to be financially solvent. Not to mention they must
have no health issues. (Did I miss something here,
Or are we not humans, hey slap me if I am wrong.) A
metaphore…
Now if we are all on the same wave length……all of us
carry baggage, (part of our history) if you can not
handle that we have had experiences in the past, be
it positive or negative……seek help immediately! You
can not be our total universe of life.(Bad and good
experiences allows for lessons, some of us get and
some of us not.)
Some of us women, through conditioning, genetics,
health, or age, have some tonnage whether we are
thin, average, or full figured. Even some of us had
children which allows for even more wonderful
figurement.
As we all know, not all can be economically
independent; I know that is a real shocker. Not all
women are after another’s money………many women who are
not solvent still have the ability to enjoy life,
another shocker no? We all find our contentment in
various ways……..and when I read a profile that
states a man seeks a woman who is either solvent or
economically independent, I feel the might have met
up with one who was after his economics, foregoing
the common sense he used to become solvent.
I also have heard, even found myself, that when we
add a man to our hotlist, he meanders over to our
profiles and viola……..no word …..not even a thank
you.
It appears he not only lacks a lesson in reality but
also social graces.
No I am not disgruntled, for there are many men who
are satisfied and content, who understand the
realities of life and how we age …but there are
still those who lack the creditability of a fig when
it comes to reality.
I can only hope they understand the reasoning they
are alone, seek……maybe if they see a woman for the
person she is, not just the outside, forgo their
ego’s to display their manliness, they just might
find ever lasting happiness …and not just with
another person but with themselves.
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